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We’re diving into the paradox of happiness today, and it’s a real eye-opener. You can’t be happy and want to be happy at the same time, which is something we all tend to overlook. I’ve spent my life chasing happiness through promotions, relationships, and little wins, only to find out it’s all temporary. The truth is, happiness isn’t about those high moments; it’s about finding peace in the everyday stuff, the mundane. So, let’s explore what it means to just be okay and how recognizing that can lead to true happiness.
It is no secret that everybody wants to be happy. Let’s face it, is that dream of it is just around the corner keeps us going. However, does it ever make you happy? In this podcast, Steven Webb talks about the paradox of happiness. Ultimately, if you understand this you will be happy.
Life’s a wild ride, and happiness? Well, it’s a tricky little thing, isn’t it? I can’t help but think back to when I was younger, dreaming about being happy. I’d sit in those school career talks, daydreaming about my future, relationships, and that elusive happiness. It’s funny how I still find myself in that same boat, almost 50 now, still chasing that feeling. But here’s the kicker: happiness isn’t something we can just grab and hold onto forever. We spend so much time thinking that once we get that promotion, or the perfect partner, or even the latest gadget, that’s when we’ll finally be happy. But every time we reach for it, it feels like it slips right back out of our grasp. It’s like a rollercoaster ride – we have those highs, but they come crashing back down. What I’ve learned through all this is that true happiness isn’t out there waiting for us to find it. It’s more about how we experience life day to day, whether it’s in the mundane tasks or those fleeting moments of joy. It’s all about understanding that happiness is not just about the highs; it’s also about the calm and the ordinary moments in between.
Let’s dig into the paradox of happiness a bit deeper. You see, I’ve come to realize that we can’t be truly happy while we’re constantly wanting happiness. It’s a cycle that keeps us on our toes, always looking for the next big thrill or the next shiny thing. But what if I told you that happiness is right in the middle? It’s not just those exhilarating experiences that we often chase after. It’s the simplicity of a good day, doing the dishes, or enjoying a quiet moment. I’ve had my fair share of struggles too; being paralyzed and dealing with health issues hasn’t made it easy. Yet, I find myself happy, and it’s not because I’ve got everything figured out, but because I understand happiness for what it is – a state of being that exists alongside all the ups and downs of life.
So, the next time you find yourself wondering if you’re happy, take a moment to think about what happiness really is. It’s not just about those big, flashy experiences. It’s about appreciating the little things, the everyday moments that make life feel a bit brighter. We often get caught up in comparing ourselves to others, thinking their lives are so much better because they post all the highlights. But behind every highlight reel, there’s a lot of mundane life that goes unseen. So let’s reframe how we view happiness; it’s not about chasing the next big thing. It’s…