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Being vulnerable and I CANNOT BELIEVE I have been HIDING THIS!

Here is the link to the video: https://youtu.be/UdVvo3u7QPI

It’s no secret that I am severely paralysed, I broke when neck when I was 18. It left me a C5 complete tetraplegic/quadriplegic which means my arms and legs are both paralysed. To be honest, most of my body is paralysed.

It’s not something I focus on a lot or at least is not something that I share very often. Yes, I say I’m paralysed, but to go into detail like I have in this podcast is something entirely different.

I am a C5 complete tetraplegic/quadriplegic. This is my morning routine, I don’t normally share such vulnerability however I think it’s time I did.

Thank you for listening and subscribing, below you will find links to meditations and my free book that will help you find stillness in the storms of life.

Check out my podcast, and if you can support me by treating me to a coffee or supporting me via PayPal that would be awesome.

Being vulnerable and I CANNOT BELIEVE I have been HIDING THIS!

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Today, I’m getting real about something I’ve been hiding for too long—my disability. I recently decided to film my morning routine, and it opened my eyes to how much I’ve kept away from the world. It turns out, I’ve been living in a way that doesn’t fully embrace my reality. I realized that I’m not just Stephen, the guy with a podcast; I’m also Stephen, who is paralyzed and needs a lot of support. By sharing this part of my life, I felt a huge weight lift off my shoulders. It’s all about being honest and showing up as my true self, imperfections and all.

Here is the link to the video: https://youtu.be/UdVvo3u7QPI

It’s no secret that I am severely paralysed, I broke when neck when I was 18. It left me a C5 complete tetraplegic/quadriplegic which means my arms and legs are both paralysed. To be honest, most of my body is paralysed.

It’s not something I focus on a lot or at least is not something that I share very often. Yes, I say I’m paralysed, but to go into detail like I have in this podcast is something entirely different.

I am a C5 complete tetraplegic/quadriplegic. This is my morning routine, I don’t normally share such vulnerability however I think it’s time I did.

Thank you for listening and subscribing, below you will find links to meditations and my free book that will help you find stillness in the storms of life.

Check out my podcast, and if you can support me by treating me to a coffee or supporting me via PayPal that would be awesome.

Takeaways:

  • This podcast is about my journey of revealing my disability to the world.
  • I realized I’ve been hiding a big part of my life due to my paralysis.
  • Sharing my experience of being disabled has brought me unexpected relief and freedom.
  • We often hide behind our imperfections, but embracing them can lead to deeper connections.
  • I believe we all have something we’re hiding, and it’s okay to show our true selves.
  • Living authentically means accepting and sharing who we really are, flaws and all.

Living Deeper Lives dives into the heartfelt journey of Stephen Webb as he reflects on his life and the hidden aspects of his disability. He opens up about his experience of being paralyzed and how, despite his public persona and social media presence, he often kept the reality of his condition under wraps. Stephen candidly discusses the struggles he faced with self-acceptance and the fear of being vulnerable. A pivotal moment comes when he decides to film his morning routine, showcasing the raw realities of his life. This act of transparency not only serves as a personal liberation but also highlights the importance of being open about our struggles. Stephen encourages listeners to consider what they might be hiding in their own lives, urging them to embrace their true selves without shame. The episode is a powerful reminder of the strength found in vulnerability and authenticity, inviting us all to reflect on our own journeys of self-acceptance and connection with others.

Don't let EMPATHY DESTROY YOU | Healthy vs Unhealthy Empathy

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We’re diving into empathy today, focusing on the difference between healthy empathy and unhealthy empathy. I’ve been mulling over this topic for a while, and it’s clear that empathy isn’t something we’re born with; it’s something we learn through our experiences, especially the tough ones. We’ll chat about how we develop empathy and why it’s crucial to understand its boundaries. Healthy empathy allows us to connect without carrying others’ pain, while unhealthy empathy can weigh us down. So, let’s get into it and explore how to be empathetic without losing ourselves in the process.

If you care too much, and you find it hard by feelings things deeply this video will help you understand where you are going wrong. Healthy empathy is completely different from unhealthy empathy.  

Diving into the world of empathy, we explore what it really means to understand others’ feelings. It’s not just about feeling sorry for someone; it’s about truly grasping their pain and experiences. We unpack the concept of healthy versus unhealthy empathy. Healthy empathy allows us to connect without carrying the emotional burden of others. Unhealthy empathy, on the other hand, is when we take on other people’s pain, leading to our own emotional turmoil. We discuss how empathy develops over time through life experiences, particularly through loss and grief. In sharing personal stories, we illustrate how our own hardships shape our ability to empathize with others. By recognizing that empathy is a skill we cultivate, we learn to appreciate the journey of becoming more empathetic without becoming overwhelmed by others’ emotions. This episode encourages listeners to reflect on their empathy levels and find a balance that allows them to support others while maintaining their own emotional health.

Takeaways:

  • Empathy is not something we are born with; it’s developed through our experiences in life.
  • Healthy empathy allows us to feel for others without carrying their pain with us.
  • Understanding the difference between healthy and unhealthy empathy is crucial for our well-being.
  • Grief and pain teach us empathy, helping us relate to others’ suffering when they share their stories.

Finding Your CORE VALUES and Why It Is so Important

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Today, we’re diving deep into the idea of core values and how they shape who we are. I had a conversation with my daughter recently that got me thinking about the roots of our identity, how our roles and beliefs are just the trunk and branches of a deeper tree. We often talk about values like integrity and caring, but do we really live by them in every situation? It’s easy to expect others to uphold these values while we struggle to bring them into our own lives. Let’s explore how we can better align our actions with our values and really root ourselves in what truly matters.

Do you ever wonder what your fundamental core values are?

Things like honesty, integrity, understanding, compassion, hard-working, and loyal to name just a few.

We all have them, and we all expect others to also have these core values. Especially in the way they treat us.

However, do you have your set few? And do you really show up as them in every aspect of your life?

Those are the questions I ask in this podcast.

Thank you, enjoy the podcast.

Living Deeper Lives dives deep into the essence of who we really are. Core values are at the heart of this discussion, where I explore how they shape our identities beyond just the roles we play in life. I share a personal story about a conversation with my daughter that sparked my reflection on these values. We often think we have integrity, caring, and understanding, but do we actually demonstrate these traits in our daily interactions? I urge you to consider whether you bring your core values to every aspect of your life, from work to family. It’s about making sure our roots are strong, so no matter what storms come our way, we stand firm in our beliefs and values. The episode emphasizes the importance of identifying and nurturing these core values to live a more meaningful and stable life.

Takeaways:

  • Living a deeper life means understanding and embracing our core values in all aspects.
  • Core values are fundamental to who we are and should guide our actions and decisions.
  • It’s important to reflect on whether we truly embody our stated core values in daily life.
  • As we grow, we must work on developing empathy and integrity in ourselves.
  • Our core values can help ground us when life gets tough and others challenge us.
  • Identifying and nurturing our core values can lead to more meaningful relationships and personal freedom.

Finding Your CORE VALUES and Why It Is so Important

Do you ever wonder what your fundamental core values are?

Things like honesty, integrity, understanding, compassion, hard-working, and loyal to name just a few.

We all have them, and we all expect others to also have these core values. Especially in the way they treat us.

However, do you have your set few? And do you really show up as them in every aspect of your life?

Those are the questions I ask in this podcast.

Thank you, enjoy the podcast.

Why BEING ENOUGH Is More Important Than Perfect

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I’ve spent most of my life trying to live up to perfection. With today’s Internet and peer pressure going global the pressure has never been so high to perform and be the best possible version of yourself.

Most of the time we have to be even better than that, we have to be perfect.

It’s no wonder when we fail to hit that mark we feel demoralised, fed up, and like we are not enough.

In this podcast Steven Webb talks about not being enough, and how it changed in 2019 for him. The strife of protection was literally stopping him doing any of the things he wanted to do. Being paralyse physically is one thing, being mentally paralysed is a whole different story.

Why BEING ENOUGH Is More Important Than Perfect

I’ve spent most of my life trying to live up to perfection. With today’s Internet and peer pressure going global the pressure has never been so high to perform and be the best possible version of yourself.

Most of the time we have to be even better than that, we have to be perfect.

It’s no wonder when we fail to hit that mark we feel demoralised, fed up, and like we are not enough.

In this podcast Steven Webb talks about not being enough, and how it changed in 2019 for him. The strife of protection was literally stopping him doing any of the things he wanted to do. Being paralyse physically is one thing, being mentally paralysed is a whole different story.

Dealing with Life's Knockout Blows

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We’re diving into some serious stuff today as we shift the podcast’s vibe from Stillness in the Storms to Living Deeper Lives. I want to explore what it really means to be 100% human, especially when it comes to dealing with our emotions. Life throws curveballs at us, and how we handle those moments—like hearing bad news or feeling overwhelmed—is crucial. We’re talking about riding the emotional waves instead of trying to calm the ocean. Join me as we figure out how to accept our feelings, embrace our humanity, and live those deeper lives we’re all searching for.

Living Deeper Lives takes a fresh turn with a new name and a broader focus. The podcast, formerly known as Stillness in the Storms, is now about embracing our humanity and the full range of emotions we experience. I want to dive deeper into what it means to be human and how we can navigate the tough stuff that life throws our way. Today, we’re tackling those unexpected phone calls that change everything; you know, the ones that leave us reeling. We share personal stories, including a heartbreaking moment I faced when I learned of a friend’s passing. It’s about acknowledging those feelings and understanding that everyone reacts differently to loss and grief. We explore how to sit with those emotions instead of shoving them aside, and the importance of allowing ourselves to feel. Emotions are like waves, and rather than trying to calm the ocean, we learn to ride those waves, letting them come and go as they please. This episode sets the stage for what’s to come in Living Deeper Lives, where we’ll learn to live more fully and authentically.

Takeaways:

  • We’ve rebranded the podcast from Stillness in the Storms to Living Deeper Lives.
  • The show will explore deeper human emotions and how to cope with them effectively.
  • We often suppress our emotions, but learning to accept and understand them is crucial.
  • Life throws curveballs at us, and we need strategies to deal with unexpected news.
  • Emotions are like waves; we should learn to ride them instead of fighting them.
  • Living a deeper life means engaging fully with our emotions and experiences as humans.