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Why Your BODY IS Your BEST TEACHER

If you really want to know how to be healthy, more energy and sleep better. Listen to your body. One of our biggest teachers is our own body, yes your body. It is giving you all the information you need to make wise decisions, yet we very often do not listen to it.

In this podcast Steven Webb the host of Stillness in the Storms talks about his body, his paralysed body and how he needs to listen to it a little more deeply than most would have to.

Today Is No Ordinary Day – 29 Years on

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Today is no ordinary day, and we dive deep into the reflection of a life-changing moment that happened 29 years ago. We talk about September 1, 1991, the day everything shifted for me. I recount the simple, everyday things I did that day, not knowing it would be the last time I would walk or feel my body in the same way. This episode reminds us to appreciate the small miracles of life we often take for granted. We explore how living with gratitude can transform our perspective, urging everyone to pause and recognize the beauty of each moment.

Every year on the anniversary of when I broke my neck, I reflect on my life being disabled, being paralysed like I am and how it affects me. How I can find the gift in what happened, and how I can use it to help others. This year I reflect on the day of my accident, that morning and what did I do on the last day I could walk.

Reflecting on the significance of September 1, 1991, I take a deep dive into the memories of that day, a day that changed everything for me. I vividly recall waking up, feeling a sense of normalcy that would soon shatter. Each motion I made, from stretching to getting out of bed, seemed routine. I walked to the bathroom, showered, and prepared breakfast, all while my mind wandered, unaware of the impending change. That day felt just like any other Sunday, but it was actually the last day I would walk, the last day I would feel my legs. I chronicle the transition from an ordinary morning to a life-altering moment—the dive that left me paralyzed. This episode isn’t just about my accident; it’s a call to acknowledge how we often take our abilities for granted. I challenge listeners to consider what they might do differently if they knew today was their last day of independence. It’s a poignant reminder to appreciate the small things, those everyday miracles we often overlook.

As I reflect on that fateful dive, I explore how life can change in an instant and how we often live on autopilot, missing the beauty around us. I share thoughts on gratitude and the importance of recognizing the miraculous aspects of our daily lives. I emphasize that every moment is precious and that we should embrace life fully. The memories of that day remind me that love, laughter, and even the mundane can be extraordinary. I urge my listeners to pause, take a breath, and recognize the gifts they possess today. This conversation is an invitation to live intentionally and with gratitude, to wake up every morning and declare, ‘Today is no ordinary day.’

Takeaways:

  • Today marks a significant anniversary, recalling the day everything changed for me.
  • I often think about September 1, 1991, and how ordinary moments can become extraordinary.
  • On that last day I could walk, I didn’t realize how special it really was.
  • Living in gratitude for what we have is essential, as nothing is guaranteed tomorrow.
  • Every single day holds potential and miracles; we must recognize and appreciate them.
  • It’s crucial to live with intention and make memories that last a lifetime.

Today Is No Ordinary Day – 29 Years on

Every year on the anniversary of when I broke my neck, I reflect on my life being disabled, being paralysed like I am and how it affects me. How I can find the gift in what happened, and how I can use it to help others. This year I reflect on the day of my accident, that morning and what did I do on the last day I could walk.

Can you be ANGRY and KIND?

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How mature is your anger? That’s the big question we’re diving into today. We’ve all got feelings like anger, shame, and guilt, but how grown-up are they really? I’ve been thinking about this a lot, and I believe many of us don’t handle our anger in a mature way. We’ll chat about what mature anger looks like, how it can shift our arguments, and why it’s not just okay to feel angry, but actually important. Plus, we’ll explore how pausing and understanding our emotions can lead to better outcomes in our relationships and daily lives. So, let’s jump right into it!

Is it really possible to be angry and be kind at the same time? I answer this question on today’s podcast, while sharing the story about an argument they could have gone seriously wrong. Have we got anger completely wrong, and should we change the way we see it.

Anger is a natural emotion, but its maturity varies from person to person. In our recent episode, we have a serious conversation about what it means to have mature anger and how it affects our interactions. Anger often signals that something we value is at stake, and understanding this can lead to healthier expressions of our feelings. The discussion revolves around differentiating between immature anger, which can lead to aggressive outbursts, and mature anger that encourages thoughtful dialogue and resolution.

I recount a story of a tense situation with a neighbor about parking, highlighting how my choice to remain calm defused the situation. This moment encapsulates the essence of our talk: when we recognize our anger as a reflection of our values and choose to respond with wisdom, we can navigate conflicts more effectively. The key is to pause and understand what is triggering our anger rather than reacting impulsively.

We also explore how anger can be a force for positive change in the world. Whether it’s addressing social issues or advocating for personal boundaries, anger can motivate us to act. The goal is to harness this energy constructively rather than letting it lead to destructive behaviors. Throughout the episode, we encourage listeners to embrace their anger, understand its roots, and express it in ways that promote connection and understanding rather than division. It’s about using our emotional experiences as tools for growth and better communication.

Takeaways:

  • Understanding how mature your anger is can help you respond better in conflicts.
  • Mature anger is about pausing, listening, and caring about the other person’s perspective.
  • Anger can drive positive change if it’s channeled wisely and not just reacted to.
  • We should embrace our anger as it indicates what we deeply care about in life.
  • The way we handle our anger can lead to more constructive conversations and solutions.
  • Realizing that we choose our reactions to anger can empower us to manage it better.

Can you be ANGRY and KIND?

Is it really possible to be angry and be kind at the same time? I answer this question on today’s podcast, while sharing the story about an argument they could have gone seriously wrong. Have we got anger completely wrong, and should we change the way we see it.

Can Meditation Reduce My Stress and anxiety?

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Meditation can really help reduce stress, and I want to share how it works. I’ve been open about my struggles with stress and feeling overwhelmed, even if I might seem calm on the outside. The truth is, we all have our battles, and I want to show you how meditation has made a difference for me. Today, I’ll talk about some simple techniques you can use to manage stress and anxiety. By recognizing our feelings and observing our breath, we can change how stress impacts us, even if we can’t change the stressful situations themselves. Let’s dive in and explore this together!

We often hear how meditation is the one thing that will save us from everything. It will improve our health, allow us to live many more years, reduced anxiety, and remove stress. Is it really realistic?

I’m Steven Webb, the host of Stillness in the Storms. And what a lot of people do not know about me is that I get stressed, and I am a long time sufferer of overwhelm. It is time to talk about it, and how I use meditation to help manage my overwhelm and stress.

Meditation is a powerful tool for managing stress, and in this discussion, we dive deep into why it works. I share my personal struggles with overwhelm and stress, revealing that despite my calm exterior, I often feel the weight of anxiety. It’s easy to think that meditation is just for the zen-like individuals, but I’m here to tell you that it’s for everyone, especially those who feel overwhelmed by life’s demands. When we practice meditation, we learn to sit with our thoughts and feelings, recognizing them without judgment. This awareness helps us manage our reactions to stressors. Instead of letting stress build up, we can pause and reflect on our feelings, which can prevent us from spiraling into anxiety. I’ll also walk you through some simple techniques that can help anyone incorporate meditation into their daily routine, making it a valuable tool for navigating life’s ups and downs.

Takeaways:

  • Meditation can help reduce stress and anxiety by increasing self-awareness and understanding of feelings.
  • Stress and anxiety are common experiences for many people, but acknowledging them is the first step to coping.
  • Meditation allows us to observe our thoughts and feelings without judgment, helping us manage stress better.
  • Recognizing the signs of stress can prevent overwhelming feelings and help in making better choices.
  • Meditation is not about eliminating stress, but about changing how we respond to it in our lives.
  • Engaging in meditation regularly can improve our ability to handle stressful situations in a healthier way.

Can Meditation Reduce My Stress and anxiety?

We often hear how meditation is the one thing that will save us from everything. It will improve our health, allow us to live many more years, reduced anxiety, and remove stress. Is it really realistic?

I’m Steven Webb, the host of Stillness in the Storms. And what a lot of people do not know about me is that I get stressed, and I am a long time sufferer of overwhelm. It is time to talk about it, and how I use meditation to help manage my overwhelm and stress.

The Middle Way | Life with less Suffering

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Today, I want to dive into the idea of balance and the middle way. I’ve had a super long day filled with meetings, but instead of feeling drained, I’m reflecting on how I can find satisfaction in my daily life, even when things get tough. It’s really about staying present, no matter how chaotic things might seem. We all have moments that feel overwhelming, but just because one part of the day is challenging doesn’t mean the whole day is a loss. Let’s explore how we can approach each moment with calmness, breathe through the stress, and appreciate the journey, even when it gets rocky.

Very often you hear in Buddhism about the middle way, but what does it really mean to live the middle way. This podcast is a general chat at the end of a long day, and how I remain positive and optimistic without going into my own suffering.

Balance is key in life, especially after a long day filled with meetings and responsibilities. Stephen Webb shares his personal journey as a city councillor and mindfulness coach, illustrating how even when life feels overwhelming, finding the middle ground can lead to satisfaction. He stresses that it’s not about avoiding challenges, but about facing them with a calm heart and a present mindset. By acknowledging both the highs and lows, we can cultivate a sense of peace even in chaos. It’s about managing our expectations and recognizing that tough moments don’t define our entire day. We can still find joy in the little victories, like engaging in meaningful discussions about improving our community, despite the fatigue. Each moment offers a chance for mindfulness, inviting us to breathe and embrace the present, no matter how challenging it may be.

Takeaways:

  • Balance is key in life, even amidst the chaos of meetings and responsibilities.
  • Our daily experiences don’t have to define our overall mood or satisfaction.
  • It’s important to practice mindfulness during challenging moments, not just in peaceful ones.
  • Finding calm in stressful situations takes practice, but it’s essential for well-being.
  • Recognizing both pleasant and unpleasant moments is vital for true balance in life.
  • Going to bed satisfied with the day shows that even tough days can have value.

The Middle Way | Life with less Suffering

Very often you hear in Buddhism about the middle way, but what does it really mean to live the middle way. This podcast is a general chat at the end of a long day, and how I remain positive and optimistic without going into my own suffering.

7 Things We and Governments Should Learn from 2020

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We’re diving into the seven crucial lessons we should all take away from 2020. First off, it’s clear that our economy really depends on everyday people spending money. We chat about how key workers kept everything running while some big businesses just sat back. Then, we explore the unpredictability of life, emphasizing that anything can happen, and that human connection is more vital than ever. We also tackle the confusing rules from governments and how they need to be clear and straightforward. Lastly, we discuss how the stock market doesn’t reflect the real economy anymore, and how journalism has become too commercialized, losing its critical edge. Let’s get into it!

Takeaways:

  • The economy needs everyday people spending money to keep it running smoothly, that’s a fact.
  • Key workers, like nurses and grocery store employees, are essential and deserve better recognition and pay.
  • 2020 taught us that anything can happen, and we should be prepared for the unexpected.
  • Human contact is crucial, and we should never take it for granted, especially after 2020.
  • Journalism is becoming more commercialized, and this trend needs to be addressed for better accountability.
  • The stock market and the economy are out of sync, which poses serious risks for businesses and society.

2020 has been a wild ride, right? Stephen dives deep into seven key lessons we should take away from this rollercoaster of a year. First on the list is the reminder that the economy is all about us—the everyday folks who keep the wheels turning by spending our hard-earned cash. Without us, those big businesses can’t thrive, no matter how many government handouts they get. This point really hits home as we reflect on the furlough schemes and stimulus checks that were meant to help us keep the economy afloat. It’s a wake-up call for governments to prioritize individual financial support because when we have money, we spend it, and that keeps the economy buzzing.

Next, Stephen emphasizes the incredible value of key workers. These are the unsung heroes who kept everything running during the pandemic—grocery store employees, nurses, delivery drivers, and so many others. Their dedication and sacrifice were crucial, often at great personal risk, and it’s about time we recognize their importance beyond just clapping on Thursdays. They deserve better pay and respect, not just during crises but always. Stephen hopes that this newfound appreciation doesn’t fade away once the dust settles.

As the discussion unfolds, Stephen touches on the unpredictability of life, human connections, and the need for clear rules. The pandemic has taught us that anything can happen at any time—no one saw this coming! It’s also highlighted how vital human contact is; we crave connection, and the absence of it has been tough. Through it all, Stephen lays out a thoughtful analysis of how government actions can be improved and how we, as a society, can ensure we learn from the challenges we faced in 2020. Each lesson is a stepping stone towards a better future, and he encourages listeners to reflect on their own growth during this unprecedented time.