The Extraordinary Ordinary Day—A Journey Back in Time with Steven Webb – 29 Years on
In the latest episode of the Stillness in the Storms podcast, host Steven Webb takes us on an emotional odyssey that rewinds the clock to a life-altering day 29 years ago—the day he broke his neck and became quadriplegic. On the surface, it seemed like just another ordinary day. But in reality, it was a […]
The Invisible Shackles: How Your Hidden Attachments Trap You
Let’s cut through the noise. Forget Disney’s “Let it Go”—we’re digging deeper. Ever thought about why you’re struggling, even when you’re doing all the “right” things? It’s the invisible chains you’ve wrapped around yourself, mate. No, not the physical ones—though those can be buggers too. I’m pointing to your internal attachments, the ones you don’t […]
3 Ways to Find Happiness RIGHT NOW!!
How is that search for happiness going? If you are anything like me you might describe it as ongoing; it is a constant search for something that is going to make us feel better. We spend so much time grabbing onto something we want next, the ever present desires that we think will lift our […]
5 Unconventional Ways to Stop Dozing Off During Meditation
Are you the type of person who sits down to meditate and wakes up wondering why you’re drooling on your meditation cushion? Let’s face it, meditation is meant to relax you, but perhaps you’re getting a little too relaxed. Too Zen to stay conscious, as it were. So, how do you find that delicate balance […]
The Blame Game: Why Pointing Fingers Steals Your Inner Peace and How to Stop
Ever find yourself stuck in the middle of a blame cycle? It’s easier than admitting you’ve got your own stuff, isn’t it? The boss becomes the villain for your work stress, your partner’s shortcomings become the reason for your unhappiness, and life’s obstacles? Well, they’re just conspiring against you. But here’s the kicker: Is this […]
What Is Healthy Control? Zen, Stoicism, and the Art of Letting Go
Control. A word that hums with tension, tugs at the soul. We’re conditioned to seek it like thirsty wanderers in a desert. But what happens when control starts to control you? It’s time we discuss the power dynamics in your own life. Are you genuinely empowered or are you ensnared in an illusion of control? […]
3 Ways to Deal with Overwhelming Emotions
We all struggle with our emotions. A two-year-old has a tantrum because they cannot have something they want in that moment. And equally, a 40-year-old will struggle with feelings of anger over a situation they cannot control.
What’s the difference?
I remember back when I was around six years old, my parents were being incredibly unreasonable and stopping me walking 3 miles alone to the gas station to claim my free Smurf toy. At the time when you refuelled the car you would be given tokens which you could then trade in for little Smurf characters. They were amazing, I already had 10 and I wanted another.
The Easy Way to Practice Gratitude
Without a doubt, the number one way to live a happier life is to practice gratitude. But why is it so important, and if it’s simply ‘appreciating what we have’, then why do so few people do it?
We become so focused on what we want, what we don’t want, and what we haven’t got, that we miss out on everything we do have. For weeks we desire a new item we’ve seen in a shop or online, we save our money or find a way to get it. When we finally get it we feel great, opening the item and enjoying this nice new experience we’ve looked forward to.
Three weeks later, everything is back to normal and we no longer spare a thought for this inanimate object that gave us such delight and pleasure just a few weeks ago.
Over-dramatic? Maybe a little? No, I don’t think so.
What is an easy way to practice gratitude?
Happiness IS a state of mind! Let me explain why
Look, someone once told me, “Happiness is a state of mind.” My initial response? A loud internal, “Oh, bollocks!” So, I’ve spent my whole life choosing to be miserable, have I? Determined to make this teacher eat their words, I dived headfirst into unravelling the enigma that is happiness. The Endless Search for Joy Are […]
What is mindfulness?
Mindfulness seems to be the latest buzzword, but what is mindfulness? Is it really so powerful it can help with depression, anxiety and even improve your health with just a few minutes a day? According to Google mindfulness is ‘a mental state achieved by focusing one’s awareness on the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and […]