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Nelson Mandela’s Lesson: Is Being ‘Bad’ Truly in One’s Nature?

By Steven Webb

20 October 2023

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The Brutal Commanding Officer: Setting the Scene

During Nelson Mandela’s 19-year imprisonment on Robben Island, one figure stood out as the epitome of brutality: Commanding Officer Badenhorst. A man seemingly devoid of empathy, he was a living, breathing manifestation of the system that sought to crush Mandela and his fellow inmates.

The Unlikely Exchange: A Crack in the Facade

One day, Mandela was summoned to the main office for a meeting with General Steyn, who was visiting the island. Badenhorst was also present as Mandela went through a list of demands and complaints about the prison conditions. But then something extraordinary happened.

“As I had finished, Badenhorst spoke to me directly. He told me he would be leaving the island and added: ‘I just want to wish you people good luck,'” Mandela recalls. For a moment, Badenhorst was not the villainous officer, but a man showing a flicker of humanity. Mandela thanked him and wished him well, leaving the room with a sense of bewilderment.

The Duality of Man: Pondering the Moment

This exchange led Mandela to ponder something far deeper than one man’s brutality. Could it be that Badenhorst, the “most callous and barbaric” officer on Robben Island, had a core of decency? Was his cruelty simply the product of a cruel system that rewarded him for such behaviour? It was a revealing moment. “He behaved like a brute because he was rewarded for brutish behaviour,” Mandela observed.

The Lesson: Unveiling Humanity in the Inhumane

Mandela took away an invaluable lesson from this experience: “It was a useful reminder that all men, even the most seemingly cold-blooded, have a core of decency and that, if their hearts are touched, they are capable of changing.” He came to understand that Badenhorst was not inherently evil; rather, he was a byproduct of an evil system.

Why It Matters: A Call to See the Unseen

In today’s divisive times, this lesson from Mandela seems more pertinent than ever. It’s too easy to brand people as bad or evil based on their actions, forgetting that they too are shaped by the systems they exist in. Perhaps what we should be challenging is not the individual, but the systems that perpetuate such inhumanity.

Final Thoughts

Mandela’s account of Badenhorst serves as a potent reminder: no one is beyond redemption. It should make us pause and consider—before we judge, before we condemn—whether we have done enough to understand the forces shaping those we consider ‘bad.’

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