Finding Inner Peace: Do You Need to Be a Buddhist?

Listen onApple Podcasts Listen onSpotify

Links to Steven Webb’s podcast and how you can support his work.

Donate paypal.me/stevenwebb or Coffee stevenwebb.uk
Steven’s courses, podcasts and links: stevenwebb.uk

Finding Inner Peace: Do You Need to Be a Buddhist?

Host: Steven Webb Website: stevenwebb.uk

Have you ever caught yourself collecting meditation apps, lining up Buddhist statues on a shelf, and wondering if you’re doing peace wrong? In this honest Sunday morning episode — recorded while recovering from an operation and still on painkillers — Steven asks a question that quietly nags at a lot of seekers: do you actually need to call yourself a Buddhist to find inner peace?

Steven traces his own path from collecting the accessories of Buddhism to hitting rock bottom at forty, when inner peace stopped being a nice idea and became something he genuinely needed. What he found was that suffering doesn’t come from life itself — it comes from our relationship to it. The clinging. The resistance. The stories we tell ourselves about what should be happening instead of what is.

Drawing on Alan Watts’s famous reminder that “the menu is not the meal,” Steven makes a gentle but clear distinction: the label, the tradition, the institution — that’s the menu. The direct experience of stillness, right where you are — that’s the meal. He also explores Jun Po Denis Kelly’s Mondo Zen approach, where awakening isn’t reserved for monasteries but happens in ordinary, messy, everyday life.

Along the way, Steven touches on the different branches of Buddhism — Theravada, Mahayana, Tibetan, Zen — and points out that the core practices of meditation, mindful awareness, and compassion don’t ask you to believe in anything at all. He shares one of his favourite insights: that every one of us interprets reality differently through our own senses and brain — and understanding that simple fact is where real compassion begins.

Steven’s conclusion? He’s not a Buddhist. Not really a Christian either. But the teachings of compassion, understanding, and love that run through all traditions? Those he agrees with completely. And the world, he says, could use a lot more of all three.

Key Takeaways

Suffering comes from our relationship to life, not from life itself. It’s the clinging and the resistance that create the pain, not the circumstances.
The menu is not the meal. Labels, traditions, and institutions point toward inner peace — but they aren’t the experience itself. Direct stillness is.
You don’t need to be a Buddhist to practise Buddhism’s core teachings. Meditation, mindful awareness, and compassion require no belief system.
Awakening happens in ordinary life. Jun Po Denis Kelly’s Mondo Zen reminds us that you don’t need a monastery — you need honesty and presence, right where you are.
We all experience reality differently. Understanding that each person’s brain interprets the world in its own way is the beginning of genuine compassion.
Enlightenment isn’t a permanent state. There are more enlightened moments and less enlightened moments — and that’s perfectly fine.
Compassion is the common ground. Across every tradition, the call is the same: more understanding, more love, more kindness.

Thank You to Our Supporters

New monthly supporters: Stephen, Kaylin, Allison

One-time supporters: Femke, Hannah, Andrew, Tracy, Helen, Tiffany Lynn, Gem, Ulysses, Anonymous, Suta, Jess, Leigh, Gerit, Cheryl, Krysia

Your generosity keeps this podcast going — thank you.

Stay curious, and I love you.

Steven